Build a life that feels
like coming home.
Wherever you are.
Helping misfit women find their people and place to call home.
The Belonging Way
You don’t need to conform to belong.
The Belonging Way feels like walking through the door after a long day, flinging your bra across the room, collapsing into the groove of your most-loved couch cushion, and finally letting out that fart groan you’ve been holding in all day, as your cat curls up on your lap and side-eyes you for the stench noise.
That feeling? Comfort. Safety. Unfiltered, unconditional being-ness.
Even when you stink up the room (we know you did, and we still love you for it).
That’s how you deserve to feel — not just at home, but out in the world.
Through storytelling strategies, travel coaching principles, and astrology-backed insight, we’ll build you a life where your bra’s off, your butt’s unclenched, and your full self is finally on the couch. (Figuratively. Though, sometimes literally. You do you.)
Come home authentically and unapologetically. To your people, your place, your past, and most importantly - to yourself.
Who It’s For
You were the quiet one. Or the loud one. But never the “normal” one — whatever that means.
You like to go left when Google Maps says right. Because hey, you never know what you’ll find. Sometimes it’s the fountain of youth. Most times it’s a ditch. But honestly? You’ll take those odds. Even if it results in a few broken limbs.
But everyone around you just wants you to stay in your lane. To be quieter. Or louder. Why can’t you just do what everyone else is doing? If everyone is doing it, it must be for a reason. What, that’s not enough for you? “If we’ve to take you to the bonesetter one more time…” they shake their heads.
You’ve asked yourself the same thing. “What is wrong with you? Why can’t you just do as they do?”
Because if you could, life would be easier. You’d be loved. Accepted. Understood. No more translating yourself for the room.
But that would be a lie. A betrayal. You can’t do that - not to yourself. You need to go where you’re called- and trust that if you fall, someone’s there to push your wheelchair. And change your dressing. And wipe your butt (justttt keepin’ it real.)
You want to live as you. And be loved for you. Why can’t both be possible?
I’m here to tell you: they are. And you can have it.
The Belonging Map — $222 $60
(limited spots!)
A 60-90 minute 1:1 soul, story, and strategy session where we dive into your unique belonging potentials and challenges at a given location and devise a plan of action for you to feel at home amongst your people, place, past, and within yourself.
Our Services
The Belonging Bridge — Free Discovery Call
Want to learn more about The Belonging Way? Curious about how astrocartography works? Want a sampling of The Belonging Map? Simply want to whine and wine about life as the odd-one-out? It’d be a privilege to hold space for you.
The Method
What is belonging?
And how does one begin to build it?
Through The Belonging Way, of course.
My signature framework was developed after several long and ugly cries that the process of graduating from the school of hard knocks of identity and relocation crisis entails. Duct-taping myself to my desk (yeah, we be kinky like that), I studied my experiences and experts (all nighttttt longgggg), and turned my emotional mess into a method:
Pattern - Your relationship with yourself. Your internal rhythm, rituals, and needs - and how it shapes your daily life.
Place - Your relationship with your environment. Familiarity, visibility, and energetic alignment with your physical location.
People - Your relationship skills. How you build, maintain, and deepen values-aligned friendships through boundaries, communication, and presence.
Past - Your relationship with your origin story. What you’re carrying. What you’re keeping. What you’re ready to grieve and release .
This is how we build belonging — not all at once, but piece by piece. Until you come home.
Tools I Use
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Travel Coaching
As an ICF-certified travel coach, I’m formally trained in the emotional + strategic frameworks of relocation, integration, and identity reinvention.
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Screenwriting + Storytelling
I’m a Netflix-produced screenwriter and lifelong story nerd. I use story arcs, identity beats, and personal narrative work to help you author the version of you that actually fits.
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Astrology + Astrocartography
I’ll map your inner blueprint and decode your belonging signature - what you need to feel safe, seen, and rooted - and read the stars by geography to help understand how and where to best support that signature.
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Real Life Experience
I’ve moved across countries, careers, and entire identities — by choice, by intuition, and of course, by crisis. Everything I teach, I’ve lived. I’ve been where you are.
“Jessica taught me so much about a subject I thought I was already an expert on: myself!”
—Katy F.
Try a session for free and see if it’s right for you.
There’s no commitment, pressure, or obligation.